This might take place in the playground or the workplace, or with family or friends and has drastic knock-on effects for queer relationship-building. Statistically, many more people that define as queer have been through trauma than straight people. While we celebrate media personalities like Phillip Schofield for coming out in their later years (it’s never too late!) the public can be guilty of expecting queer people to act like their straight counterparts when it comes to relationships when of course queer relationships are different.